Love Language

A few weeks back, I was doing this Tarot Reading for a boy who wanted to know about his Mum's health in time to come.  Surprisingly, the cards drawn did not specifically answered the question, instead it leads us to know more about the emotional status of his mum.

For his mum's physical health, there is nothing to worried about at the moment, but her emotional health needs more attention and care.  As we converse, it seems that his mum always feels that no one in the family loves her.  She needs more care and concern which is to be shown physically.  This reminds me of a book which I have once read - The 5 Love Languages .

I shared with him that different people have different aspect of being love and loved.  One may love someone and starts to nag at him/her on certain issues for their benefits.  Yet the party felt that their partner does not love them and only knows how to nag at them.

Some prefers physical display of affection, while others prefers the 'love by actions (doing things)'.  In order to make your partner or family feels the love you have for them, you'll have to love them the way they prefer.  I would say, perhaps only 20% of the people will love their partner the way they prefers and have no qualms about it.  The remaining 80% will always be feeling unloved, as their partner doesn't speak their language of love.

Do remember that we are always being loved, only that the kind of love might not be exactly the one we adored :)

Blessed be!

Love
Lady Shaura
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