This post is dedicated to one of my friend. She seems to be always unhappy, full of grudges/complains and negative thoughts. Thou I sincerely wanted to help her but I do not want to come across as demanding, so I can only help her in a not so obvious way. She can complain about the random stranger in the MRT who accidentally bump into her, about another friend’s husband whom she isn’t very close with, colleagues whom she deemed as opposing to her with regards to work, her own family members whom she seems to have so much hatred in them, and the list goes on and on. Every words that comes out from her mouth is something negative, if not depressing.
To her, it is like everything and everyone on Earth is trying to irritate her, destroy her life and make her look insignificant. Every time I have to meet her, I’ll have to make sure I am well protected in my spiritual amour. Unknowingly, with her negative thoughts, negative energy surfaced around her and people who get too close with her, will eventually be affected by her negative energy. This is what we commonly call, Energy Vampires. Energy Vampires do not suck on the other’s energy knowingly (most of the time), and the ‘victim’ will feel agitated, tired and completely lifeless after the meet up with the Energy Vampire. Do you always have such symptoms after a meet up with a friend? Most probably, you are the victim of the Energy Vampire.
Alright, back to my friend.
She doesn’t feel that she is wrong in having those negative feelings about people and things. So, for a start, she is not a ‘willing’ party for me to help. I cannot asked her to have a Tarot reading to find out the root issue of her negativity and neither can I ask her to do an Energy Healing to ‘boost’ up her good energy level. As she deem that there is nothing wrong with her, I can’t really force her to seek ‘treatments’. Even when I asked her to buy the self help books, she refused and replied me that she would rather spend the money on food. It is pretty natural that no one will agree they are ‘sick’ and needs ‘treatment’ as even those drunkards and mental patients refused to acknowledge they are drunk / mentally ill!
At one point, as a friend, I told her straight to get the self help book for her own good. Guess what she said? She told me to buy it for her at the end of the year as a Christmas present! At this point, I guess I have to tell her bluntly that there are no right or wrong in everything/everyone; only different perspective on things. That is why there are always clashes on ideas and issues be it friends, family or even strangers on a common topic. For everything which you dislike about something or someone, the ‘thing’ is what you dislike about yourself within; it is a mirror effect on all situation or lesson to be learn.
Thankfully, it kind of drilled into her and she told me an hour later that she will get the book I recommend later. Nothing much, but at least a tiny baby step forward
There are many times I wanted to give up and let her be, but she keeps coming back to my life, so I guess it’s the Universe’s way of asking me to help her. With the Universe guidance, I hope I can open up a brighter path for her and as well as for me.
Love
Lady Shaura
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