Going Against Your Fears

逃避不一定躲的過
面對不一定最難過
孤單不一定不快樂
得到不一定能長久
失去不一定不再擁有

Came across this phrase in Facebook and thought it was quite meaningful, thus sharing here.

Many times, we thought we cannot do certain things or is not confident enough to accomplish certain task.  If we have this concept of "going against your fears", things will be much simpler.

Fears are there to enable your growth.  If we can get over our fears, we will feel the sense of accomplishment or feel empowered.  That is, if we have make a conscious decision or have made a firm decision wanting to get over our own fear.

Saying is always easier than done.  But without saying, it will not trigger your thoughts and hence there wouldn't be even a 1% chances of you working on it.  Repeat to yourself and affirming that your can get over your fear, you can surpass your fear.  Have faith you will be able to do it!

Like this phrase, 面對不一定最難過 (you might not be unhappy even thou you are facing the dreaded issue), upon facing the issue, it might bring you light on the whole issue,  you can realize that it is not such a big issue after all, you will understand that every little obstacles in life is a chance for you to grow.

So, stop anticipating how you will feel when faced with certain issues in life. Action now and make changes!  Only when you are out of your comfort zone, you will realize how much more you can accomplish.

Gambatte!!!

Blessed be!

Love
Lady Shaura
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